Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Gratitude for a Full Life

By: Jennifer Lara, LCPC

 
"Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life." ~ Melody Beattie.

Gratitude creates awareness and appreciation for what we consider good, essential, nourishing and enriching in our lives.  It is a concept often talked about yet, not often practiced. Since young we are told saying "thank you" shows appreciation to the external world.  We tend to leave gratitude in the public space not realizing its powerful effect when included in the personal space moments of solitude when we feel connected with appreciation of things in our lives.  Studies show that a regular gratitude practice can increase our levels of happiness, energy, positive outlook, and overall well-being.

Gratitude can change perception effortlessly. Consider a moment when you are confronted by a boring task, such as washing the dishes.  Witness how your experience can change when you frame the event with a sense of gratitude: I am grateful for the meditative quiet time in this task. Being thankful for experiences, people, and things allows us to be present in that moment. In times where life takes a sharp turn for the unexpected, gratitude can help ground us.  When the world seems heavy and uninviting, gratitude can help refocus us to what we do have present in our lives.  When worry or doubt arise, focusing on aspects we are grateful for helps quell the anxiety.  When stress begins to overwhelm, taking a few minutes to express gratitude creates a sense of control. Cultivating gratitude enhances experiences, relationships, and positive emotions.

How to begin incorporating and practicing gratitude? Here are some ideas:

  Start a gratitude journal and write down at least three things each day

  Create a daily habit of reciting a gratitude prayer

  Translate negative events with gratitude; see these as opportunities for change and growth

  Express gratitude to both strangers and friends alike

  Include gratitude in meditation routine

  Establish a family gratitude ritual

  Notice "small" everyday things to appreciate

   Volunteer and give back

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